You Are Your Best Thing: Vulnerability, Shame Resilience, and the Black Experience

You Are Your Best Thing: Vulnerability, Shame Resilience, and the Black Experience

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  • Create Date:2021-05-01 12:31:14
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  • Author:Tarana Burke
  • ISBN:0593451910
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Summary

Tarana Burke and Dr。 Brené Brown bring together a dynamic group of Black writers, organizers, artists, academics, and cultural figures to discuss the topics the two have dedicated their lives to understanding and teaching: vulnerability and shame resilience。

Contributions by Kiese Laymon, Imani Perry, Laverne Cox, Jason Reynolds, Austin Channing Brown, and more

It started as a text between two friends。

Tarana Burke, founder of the 'me too。' Movement, texted researcher and writer Brené Brown to see if she was free to jump on a call。 Brené assumed that Tarana wanted to talk about wallpaper。 They had been trading home decorating inspiration boards in their last text conversation so Brené started scrolling to find her latest Pinterest pictures when the phone rang。

But it was immediately clear to Brené that the conversation wasn't going to be about wallpaper。 Tarana's hello was serious and she hesitated for a bit before saying, "Brené, you know your work affected me so deeply, but as a Black woman, I've sometimes had to feel like I have to contort myself to fit into some of your words。 The core of it rings so true for me, but the application has been harder。"

Brené replied, "I'm so glad we're talking about this。 It makes sense to me。 Especially in terms of vulnerability。 How do you take the armor off in a country where you're not physically or emotionally safe?"

Long pause。

"That's why I'm calling," said Tarana。 "What do you think about working together on a book about the Black experience with vulnerability and shame resilience?"

There was no hesitation。

Burke and Brown are the perfect pair to usher in this stark, potent collection of essays on Black shame and healing。 Along with the anthology contributors, they create a space to recognize and process the trauma of white supremacy, a space to be vulnerable and affirm the fullness of Black love and Black life。

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Reviews

Julie

The preface provided by Tarana and Brené is critical to understanding the motivation for this book’s manifestation。 It helps to improve your listening ear and is precisely what someone like me, a white person, must do with a book aimed at helping Blacks and POC; we just need to shush up and listen。 These essays offer the opportunity to feel their specific experiences as it applies to the relatability of Brené’s body of work。 Admittedly, Brené states her research and findings apply to every one, The preface provided by Tarana and Brené is critical to understanding the motivation for this book’s manifestation。 It helps to improve your listening ear and is precisely what someone like me, a white person, must do with a book aimed at helping Blacks and POC; we just need to shush up and listen。 These essays offer the opportunity to feel their specific experiences as it applies to the relatability of Brené’s body of work。 Admittedly, Brené states her research and findings apply to every one, but knew it fell short as she only relates to it as a white woman。 Here she has Tarana take the lead on bringing it to the Black experience。 I hope it serves precisely the group intended。 It’s important that we all get to benefit from Brené’s work。 。。。more

Leah Pitfield

Inspiring, emotional, poignant essays that touch your heart and often could have been your thoughts。

Amethyst

All I needed to know was that Kiese Laymon and Imani Perry contributed to this book to know this was going to be exceptional。 And it is。 It is a tender, loving collection of personal stories from artists and activists。 It is their modeling of vulnerability, expressing their shame, resilience, and their healing journey。 It highlights our shared humanity and our expansiveness; our diversity in geography, sexuality, experiences, trauma, education, etc。 Because of this anthology, I have started jour All I needed to know was that Kiese Laymon and Imani Perry contributed to this book to know this was going to be exceptional。 And it is。 It is a tender, loving collection of personal stories from artists and activists。 It is their modeling of vulnerability, expressing their shame, resilience, and their healing journey。 It highlights our shared humanity and our expansiveness; our diversity in geography, sexuality, experiences, trauma, education, etc。 Because of this anthology, I have started journaling about my personal shame and the ways I have contributed to shaming others, even in my silence。 I’m moved and inspired by Kiese Laymon writing odes and apologies to people he disrespected and harmed and to body parts he neglected。 Glad I purchased the audiobook so I can re-listen to essays when I need to be reminded of my/our worth, my/our abundance, my/our resilience。 。。。more

Traci at The Stacks

This anthology is a gift。 I’m glad it exists。 Shame is so toxic and something that we carry and pass on without ever dealing with it。 This book deals with it in many ways。 Centering the uniqueness of Black shame and trauma is necessary。 My personal favorite essays came from (no surprise) Kiese Laymon, Jason Reynolds, and Jessica J。 Williams。My only critique is that the essays don’t feel rooted or connected to each other。 They’re all so different the book becomes confusing。 What is the tone they This anthology is a gift。 I’m glad it exists。 Shame is so toxic and something that we carry and pass on without ever dealing with it。 This book deals with it in many ways。 Centering the uniqueness of Black shame and trauma is necessary。 My personal favorite essays came from (no surprise) Kiese Laymon, Jason Reynolds, and Jessica J。 Williams。My only critique is that the essays don’t feel rooted or connected to each other。 They’re all so different the book becomes confusing。 What is the tone they were attempting strike。 Some essays are narrative and personal some rely heavily on therapy jargon and terminology。 。。。more